About my coaching.

The foundation of my coaching practice is based on the Universal Law of Attraction which I have used to create a joyful, fulfilling life for myself. (For more information on the Laws, click here.)

My coaching is founded in the belief that your reality is created from your thoughts and the emotion behind those thoughts; and we'll prove this together over and over.

My passion is working with clients who are ready to attain the same: prosperity, pleasure, and abundance in every aspect of their lives. You'll begin blending the being, the thinking and the feeling with action that comes only from inspiration. And what you'll find is that life can be easy and exhilarating - regardless of what you've been taught up to now. The good news is that it doesn't matter what your life has been like up to this point. Your power is in you now! And it's all for the taking.

Do you have the courage to ask for what you want? Are you ready to take your life to new levels? Are you feeling a sense of excitement?

If so, then let's get started! Find out how easy and fulfilling it truly can be to manifest your goals and dreams into reality - right here, right now.

About our relationship.

As your coach, I help you close the gap between where you are and where you want to be. I inspire you to see, feel and imagine options on the menu, you didn’t know were even there!

I help you identify the “Games” that you want to play in life and how to WIN at them, rather than playing self defeating games that you can’t really “win” at , or games that you don’t care about playing.

I help you clarify and prioritize your goals, create a strategy, (a “Game Plan”),  identify specific steps to take, and provide you with on-going support by using a process of inquiry and personal discovery to build your level of awareness and responsibility, in order to help you achieve your goals and WIN. It’s my job to keep you moving forward in the ways that you have identified as essential, while deepening the learning of who you are and what’s important to you - so that you can live the rest of your life with few or no regrets, having fun and joyful play!

  • Re-awaken your dreams, clarify your mission, purpose and goals
  • Learn the art of living well
  • Cultivate the pleasure of play at any age
  • Develop healthy inner self esteem, (not just on what you spend $$ on!)
  • Learn how the game of life can feel ‘easy’ and flowing!
  • Overcome feeling “stressed out” and overwhelmed
  • Get control of your time and money
  • Re-invigorate your relationships
  • Find passion in your career
  • Embrace change and transition
  • Live a life you love!
  • Connect with your intuition and ‘think out of the box”!
  • Integrate ALL parts of your life , including feelings, sexuality, body and spirituality
  • Experience Health and cultivate wellness that are unstoppable and rejuvenating!

Attraction Coaching is a one-on-one relationship that empowers you to align all areas of your life with your values and desires using the Abraham-Hicks Universal Laws of Attraction.

What if you only did what brought you joy on a daily basis? The best way to have your life be different is through Law of Attraction Coaching and practice. In coaching sessions, (conducted by phone) you clarify and reach your true desires that support a fulfilling lifestyle and career.

Imagine a relationship with someone objective...

  • Where you are the center of focus.
  • Who is curious about your dreams and aspirations
  • Who will help you clarify your goals and provide the means for action and learning that lead to the results you want
  • Who will challenge your fears and help you get beyond self-imposed limitations.
  • Who will guide you inward to tap into the expert within you.
  • Who will help you see the blind spots in your plans and create and implement strategies that work.
  • Who brainstorms ideas and solutions with NO limits.
  • Who is sometimes even more committed to what you want in life than you are.
  • Who will support you in holding true to your values and life purpose
  • Who will tell you the truth unequivocally - about where you are strong and where you sell yourself short
  • Who sees how big you can be and constantly holds that image for you - even when you can't hold it for yourself.
  • Who listens to you without judgment  and accepts you without  overanalyzing.
  • Who you can talk to each week - when you've had great successes or when you have just made a mess of things - and be fully supported in your efforts.
  • Where you finally break free of those self-limiting conversations you have been having with yourself over the years.

The coaching relationship is exactly that. It is...

  • A unique relationship which offers you an extraordinary level of support and encouragement
  • An on going relationship which is goal-driven, action-oriented, proactive, responsive and measurable
  • A catalyst for helping you articulate your dreams, desires and aspirations and clarify your mission, purpose and goals
  • A partnership that allows you to achieve results beyond your wildest imagination
  • Like having your own personal navigator for the journey of your life; someone who will help you find your way and stay on course

As a trained Coach of Laws of Attraction, I can help you...

  • Strengthen your personal foundation, raising standards, eliminating tolerations and setting boundaries
  • Get to the source of the problems and creating solutions
  • Set values-based goals and prioritized action items
  • Produce high level performance and results
  • Develop a reserve of time, money, space, relationships and love in your life

Coaching works best for those who...

  • Have a desire to grow
  • Want to make a difference
  • Are willing to take a chance on themselves
  • Want support in reaching their dreams or desires
  • Are open to new insights, breakthroughs and transformation
  • Understand that mastery comes from a beginner's mind and practice
  • Want to take their leadership and effectiveness to new heights
  • Are committed to being the best they can be
  • Want to live life to the fullest
  • Have a willingness to try on a new notion in playful fun
  • Are willing to suspend cynicism that keeps us out of the game

Coaching Certifications:

About me.

My professional background:

I am a graduate of the highly acclaimed Coaches Training Institute (CTI)  As well, I am an active member of the ICF (including the NYC chapter).

My passion is working with creative minds and passionate hearts - those who know that, no matter what the circumstances, you can’t win if you don’t play.

My Coaching style:

My “Coaching Style” is altogether encouraging and empowering, like a cheerleader- but not the kind you hated in High School!

I am a “go getter” and folks who know me know my fiery and lively spirit. You can trust that if we are working together personally, that I am not the type  of practitioner to string my players along for longer coaching to make more money, when they are best served being more active in “playing their games and practicing their moves”, in other words, I’m all about getting you to where you wish to go as fast as you can stand getting THERE, at the same time reminding you to “smell some roses along the way” - being mindful of the thorns!

My training is very balanced: At CTI  (Coach’s Training Institute) we were all about using ‘softer’ methods of letting the ‘player’ process and go as slow as they wanted- so that is fine as well if you NEED and choose that, but I charge what I do because I get effective and TIMELY RESULTS!

My web address is “ChangeBuddy” because change is natural, endemic, and we need not resist it, but TRUST that LIFE IS GOOD and you are here to have FUN AND THRIVE as your Unique SELF!

I’m quite funny and I love to laugh with you when we are IN THE GAME together!

My Personal background:

There is so much that I am passionate about – I have recovered my self esteem and teach folks how to cultivate it. I am most passionate about transfomation and creating BEAUTY and  ORDER, starting first with the SELF! I have artistic skills and I design my life (and assist you to design your life as well as a work of Art!) I have traveled most extensively throughout Asia, where I was continuously in awe of how profoundly simple, healthy, Sex Positive, and beautiful life was for so many. As well, I find the same opportunities for adventure and synchronicity right here in bustling New York City - every day feels like an exciting journey and I am always reminded of how important it is to stay “awake” because I don’t want to miss any of it!

When I’m not coaching, I spend my time doing volunteer community organic, permaculture gardening in several large beds I have designed on my street all along my block and with the Central Park Conservancy.

When I am not Coaching  I am engaged in Tantra Studies, Yoga, working out with weights, reading Self Improvement, Anthropology, Metaphysics, and Studying the latest practical applications and techniques of The Law of Attraction. I indulge in occasional bad Karaoke, daily meditation and Men’s Intimacy work. I assist and  facilitate  Men’s Yoga and Tantric retreats, Power, Surrender, and Intimacy play, running (as in jogging) in the park, shopping at the Farmer’s Market, Daily Organic Cooking, appreciating good food with great friends, and spending time chatting with my neighbors while I’m in "my" gardens and learning how "not to sweat the small stuff"!

I have a BFA in Drawing and Painting from Milwaukee Institute of Art and Design. (I can find beauty in everyone!)

I am a certified Sexologist, Masseur, Reiki Master, and trained in Holistic Healing Modalities, with focus on Somatics.

I am an officially Ordained Public Minister and can legally marry folks, officiate at ceremonies, funerals, etc.

I have lived in NYC for almost 20 years as a creative person.

I have traveled around the world, researching Tantra and Sacred Sexuality in all cultures. I find the cultures of Asia especially resonant and interesting on many levels.